Kari isn't able to do what she used to and this has led to tensions in her household.
Transcript
With my spouse and I, we aren’t as sociable as we used to be. You know we used to go to hockey games and all those kinds of things, so I think he kind of, they kind of bear the brunt of it with you, without meaning to, right? Because they don’t want to just go by themselves. So, yeah, I think relationships take a toll and so it affects them … So, yeah, it’s, it definitely affects the people around you because like it wasn’t ‘til recently that my spouse really understood what I meant when I said I was tired. So, until that point, I can’t imagine what he thought, right, when I said, “No I’m too tired.” And no, you know, “No I don’t want to go visit friends because I’m too tired.” So, it affects your social life, it affects your relationships, yeah, it’s, it definitely ends up affecting the people around you … I don’t know if he agrees with me, but I would say it’s put a strain on our relationship. Just because, you know, he’s that old-type farmer that, you know, the woman should be cooking, I mean, don’t get me wrong, he’ll cook meals and here and there, but if he’s out working for the day, he wants to come home to a meal. And when he doesn’t get that, I’m sure he’s like, “Oh OK, whatever,” right? It puts a strain there, for sure.
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