Julie feels more resilient, and a lot of healing has taken place.
Written testimony
Yeah. So despite these tears, just thinking about that experience I’m much more resilient today. I have a lot more time – there’s a lot of healing that’s happened. So I still have my birth-related injury. I don’t have pain, thankfully. So that ER doctor was incorrect; I do not have chronic pain. [Laughter] Incorrect. I do not have pain. I do have [a birth injury] still, and so I make lifestyle modifications because of that. And I’ve sought a lot of physiotherapy in my first year of postpartum related to it.
And I – my mental health is much, much, much better. I still am being followed and supported by mental health therapists to help me process the trauma, still, of – I think I experienced multiple traumas. And I think one of those little traumas is from the health system and the lack support that we received that shouldn’t have been the case. Again, this is why, like, when I heard about the study I felt like, you know, if I can contribute in some way that can help maybe advocate for change and maybe help someone else who’s struggling, then that would be a beautiful gift and meaning-making for my experience and my journey that I’ve gone through.
I reflect back on those experiences and I’m so proud that I have gotten through it, that we got through it as a family. And so, yeah, it’s completely different, my life today, than what it was in those first several months postpartum, for sure. Yeah.
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- Advice for Health Care Providers – Julie (clip 2)Julie advocates for less medicalized approaches to birth.
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