Kaitlyn encourages women to become educated on how a baby will change your relationships.
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I think we need to – it’s so hard because it might be too late by the time that they’re looking for this advice. But I think we really need to educate ourselves on what it looks like to have a baby when it’s not just you know, like baby proofing or what the baby needs. I think we need to really educate people on what it’s going to look like for your relationship, and for yourself too. Just like the changes that are going to happen to you as a person when you have a child. And just it’s so hard to explain because I just didn’t know it was going to affect my thinking so differently having a child. I thought I would just be my normal old self with a baby. And that’s just not how it happens. So I don’t know how to properly say that, or even what that is. But people just need to know I guess, get in line like what supports they have for themself. And they really need to re-evaluate their relationship with their partner and make sure they’re you know, onboard and going to be there to advocate for them, and support them.
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