Hearing her baby cry sent Michelle1's anxiety through the roof.
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The hours are so long plus when the baby could cry my anxiety would go through the roof. I would try to do anything to calm him down. And with a newborn you have no idea why they’re crying. Well, you can figure it out though. So, the psychiatrist or someone I was speaking to, the counsellors said you either change their diaper, they’re hungry, you check if they’re hungry, you check their diaper to see if it’s wet, you check if they’re sleepy, try to put them to bed maybe and then that’s it. Maybe they’re just crying then ’cause they’re uncomfortable or gassy or something.
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