Seeking and Finding Reliable Information

Women described the many and varied sources of information available to them. They noted that information obtained from online sources and social media can be a double-edged sword, bringing both positive and negative information and experiences. They talked about other ways of learning about mental health and several emphasized the importance of getting information from healthcare professionals.

 

Wide Ranging Sources of Information

Tara shared her experience of having to seek out information about mental health issues on her own, rather than being informed by a healthcare professional. Now I know I have the information but that’s because I lived through it. And I’ve had to seek it out.” Women sought and found various sources of information on maternal mental health including online information, social media (Instagram, Facebook groups), special forums, books, magazines, and free research-based podcasts using different search engines. They found information via television shows and news media, national and international online support groups, and in-person courses about maternal mental health.

Louise describes the different sources she used to find information about perinatal mental health.

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Oui, ça, des … J’ai effectivement regardé “La peur d’avoir peur, c’est un livre que j’avais déjà lu, et que j’ai même re-feuilleté encore ici. À part ça, j’ai vu… Je l’ai aimé ce livre-là aussi, je l’ai trouvé bien. Les sites Internet, j’ai vu aussi un groupe Facebook, sur Facebook, […]

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Positive Experiences with Social Media

Through social media, some women found valuable information about mental health in general, as well as support from people going through the same issues, and a better understanding of their own condition. For some, it helped provide a sort of check-in on how they were doing. Women found trustworthy organizations on social media such as the Postpartum Support International (PSI), Canadian Perinatal Mental Health Collaborative (CPMHC) – N.B no longer in operation –  and Naître et Grandir, with credible information on maternal mental health. See also our resources section on this site. Additionally, some doctors and therapists recommended several online sources that shared reliable information. One participant described how using Instagram helped her to find information and gain a better understanding of postpartum psychosis. In addition, through Instagram, she connected with a supportive friend across the globe, which made her feel less isolated in her experience with mental health challenges. Some participants also found comfort in support groups and hearing about the experiences of others, realizing they were not alone in their struggles. Another participant discussed creating a Facebook support group for maternal mental health awareness. She highlighted the importance of providing support and reducing judgment for others; according to her, this is the only way forward.

Using social media helped Michelle2 to find information and think about her own condition and how she was handling it.

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Interviewer: Did you get to find information on social media about mental health, and pregnancy, and postpartum? Yes. Interviewer: Yeah? And I found it very helpful. Especially with the pandemic and like what the recommendations were with vaccinating, and different things during my pregnancy. And then I started following all […]

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Amanda2 made an Instagram friend who faced the same challenges.

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Interviewer: So Instagram was a good for you? Yeah. I remember I searched #postpartumpsychosis, this is so funny, I found a girl who lives in Australia who posted a story a whole year prior to my getting sick and she posted a big story, you know, on Instagram a picture […]

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The Internet as a Double-Edged Sword

Many participants looked to the internet and online sources for information about maternal mental health. Some, as per the examples above, found it helpful, such as discovering support groups, information about their condition, online courses, and easy-to-access information. In contrast, others had more negative experiences finding that, for instance, reading about complex stories or extreme cases was triggering or harmful in some way when comparing themselves with these situations and becoming afraid that the same could happened to them. One participant found that online support groups brought blame instead of comfort, and others explained that the amount of information made them feel lost and overwhelmed. Although online information was easy to find, selecting what was trustworthy or not was challenging.

Participants found that using Google, for instance, for general searches online could make finding information easy, however it also resulted in an enormous amount of information, which could be confusing, and it was difficult to know what information was reliable and what was not. Amanda2 explained that she viewed the internet as a double-edged sword’. When she was anxious and experiencing obsessive and intrusive thoughts, her constant searching for information online was harmful. However, when she began to feel better, the internet became a helpful tool; it connected her with other women who provided support.

For some, participating in an online support group was helpful, for example, in learning how to care for themselves and feeling they were not alone. For others, online support groups, as well as in-person groups that did not focus on maternal mental health, were unhelpful or made them feel worse.

Many participants searched for information to understand their emotions and whether they were in the ‘usual’ range. They wanted to know if certain behaviours, such as not eating for two weeks or lack of interest in spending time with the baby, were normal.

Participating in an online support group was not helpful for Kaitlyn.

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I joined like a perinatal mood and anxiety disorder group online. Which made me feel worse because I just felt like more like isolated and lonely pretty much. Because the internet’s just for lonely, sad people. And there’s nothing in the area that you could attend in person. Like to […]

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Christine searched online to understand what was normal or not for postpartum depression as she wanted to understand her symptoms.

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Interviewer: And did you also look for information about anxiety or about the symptoms you’re experiencing? I didn’t, what I looked up more was, is it normal for me to feel like this, I didn’t really look up coping mechanisms, which I probably should have been looking at. What I […]

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Josée-Anne doesn't recommend online forums as they can expose extreme cases of mental health issues.

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Intervieweuse: Bien une question par rapport à ça, puis après je reviens avec celle-là. Vous m’avez mentionné le site Revivre est-ce qu’il y a d’autres sources d’information, des livres de site Web où vous allez chercher de l’information. Moi, à part [nom de l’organisme communautaire], puis Revivre, euh… C’est souvent […]

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Professional and In-Person Support and Information

Some women stated that they didn’t like to search for information online but would rather receive information from a healthcare professional because they offered trustworthy and personalized knowledge. One participant explained that her in-person support group was an important source of advice on taking care of herself. Karmin, who experienced postpartum mental health challenges, wanted to use the information she acquired to help support other women at work with similar challenges; her goal was to validate their feelings and be a good source of information. Another participant described how would have preferred to have local support but could only find online resources.

Finding information through health care professionals and people with similar experiences were the best strategies for Tara.

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I felt going – like, going to my family doctor, going to my OB-GYN, talking to them and then going to different moms groups. I’m kind of reluctant to, like, Google everything. You know? I’m not – when I was pregnant I didn’t Google, like, oh I’m doing – like, […]

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Candace describes how her support group helped her to learn tools to take care of herself.

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It’s a peer support group. So there’s no, you know, therapist or counsellor there. It’s run by one of the Early Years facilitators, and we usually spend the first part of the group, we do a check in. So whether that be a, you know, balloon exer, we call them […]

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Andrea created a Facebook group for maternal mental health awareness that meets periodically to support each other.

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I started a Facebook group for maternal mental health awareness, and it has now over 200 members all over the world, and we meet about every six weeks, eight to twelve women at a time, whoever wants to come. We’re by no means mental health professionals; we’re very upfront about […]

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Mixed Experiences with Health Care Professionals

Women told us that it would have been helpful to have more information about maternal mental health during prenatal care, including about symptoms, how common it is, and the potential impact on daily life, as well as that it is okay to ask for help. At the same time, they acknowledged that this sort of information could scare some people. Having access to a reliable list of mental health and breastfeeding resources in their area would have been helpful before they faced mental health challenges. Many were unaware of the possibility of mental health issues during pregnancy. Some were simply asked if they were experiencing problems, and they weren’t sure or didn’t know. In Susan’s case, she was unaware of what postpartum depression was and when her midwife asked if her mother had ever experienced it, she felt embarrassed for not knowing, so she answered no. She later learned about postpartum depression, and realized she should have sought help earlier. Seeking assistance when struggling with these issues was very difficult for several participants. Mirian recalled that her doctor advised her against medication and recommended she see a psychotherapist. However, she didn’t know where to find one and searching for a therapist was particularly challenging while she was feeling unwell. She felt that her doctor could have provided more information and support in finding a psychotherapist, especially when many are without private insurance. Emma also felt that healthcare professionals could better advocate for women during pregnancy. Another participant felt that with better education, it would help reduce the stigma that women feel. Zoe also stated that women should have better, more accurate information about mental health, well-being, and, their child’s well-being. She described how having the right information changed her life.

Susan didn't know anything about postpartum depression before experiencing it herself; having information in advance would have been helpful.

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Interviewer: Is there anything you know now that you wish you had known before this had happened? I wish I’d known more about postpartum depression. The signs to look out for, what it is and why it happens to people. And I wish that, you know, I’d been told that, […]

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Zoe feels that all women should have adequate information about their mental health for the well-being of themselves and the baby.

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PMH16: It’s so great. I mean, all these positive answers, I’m not saying that you know, sure something could have gone wrong. I don’t know what the stats are precisely but, you know, but the main thing is that I was given a choice, I was able to make an informed decision about this. I think that’s the key idea here that, but what about other women who are not falling on this doctor at McGill who then referred them to a pharmacologist, who then referred them to … I mean but since then it’s fairly new. Like Dr. [name]’s post, her position is new. When I was telling my family doctor, or other doctors, or even psychiatrists, or psychologists about, there is such a thing called reproductive psychiatrist like Dr. [name]. It’s all new to them.

So I think this is a fairly new field maybe and this information should be easily accessible. It shouldn’t be contingent on who you fall on. A woman should have a right to have access to accurate information that pertains to her mental health, her wellbeing and by extension her child’s wellbeing.

I was in a position where it was either/or. Like either I’m going to be well and my child might not be well, or I’m not going to be well and my child will be well, but maybe not because I’m not well. These are big, like heavy, heavy, heavy, heavy, heavy, heavy weight to carry. I was telling myself, like how could I live with myself knowing that I have to take Paxil, mommy you have to take Paxil to keep it together but you have a heart condition that’s going to stick with you for the rest of your life. Congratulations.

Some women didn't receive any information on postpartum mental health during pregnancy, like Krysta.

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Interviewer: About information, do you think you were well-informed during your pregnancy about postpartum depression or postpartum anxiety? No. Like, it was brough up simply as a question. Like, “Are you aware of this part?” But like, I guess, I was like, “Yes, it’s on my radar,” but, I guess, […]

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Genna suggests increasing education about mental health during perinatal classes to help reduce stigma.

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Interviewer: You’ve been through this incredible experience. If you were in charge of prenatal education and education of healthcare professionals, what would be on the curriculum? The signs and symptoms of postpartum psychosis and postpartum depression. Interviewer: Did you go to prenatal classes when you were pregnant? I did, yeah. […]

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Candace believes it is important to have a mental health module on prenatal classes.

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Initially, I would say yes, of course, because, you know, postpartum adjustment issues can happen to anyone. We, we know that people are more prone to some of these issues, depending on circumstance, but, but then again, I, I don’t, I wouldn’t … [Laughs] It’s so … I don’t want […]

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Having good information changed Zoe's life.

Written testimony

Interviewer: So tell me what life is like now?

Life is great. Life is much better. I still have my ups and downs, you know, but I’ve come a long way and we have this beautiful, beautiful child. Like he’s a firecracker. He’s something else. He’s a ball of fire. He’s this ray of light. Like he’s just, he’s amazing. He’s smart. He’s alert. He’s only seventeen months but he’s something. Like his smile is contagious, he’s a hit at daycare. God forbid I don’t send him one day. They call and say where is he? We feel his absence and it’s like, when is he coming back. He’s, it just makes me wonder. Like he could have not been around if, I could have easily closed the door on motherhood and said, not for me, but even though I’ve suffered a lot even after the baby because of intrusive thoughts or whatever, anxiety or being hard on myself, I think my suffering would have been tenfold had I not overcome my fear of pregnancy. Had I not had access to the information about medication and antidepressants and pregnancy, he wouldn’t have been here.

Last updated: 2025-06