Home care and live-in caregivers
About half of the caregivers we interviewed received support from publicly funded home care services on a regular basis. Several caregivers had experience with temporary home care support. Caregivers who didn’t have home care either had cancelled the service or felt that they didn’t need this type of support yet.
Overall, caregivers were grateful for the help, satisfied with the people that came to their homes, and happy with the care they provided. There were some exceptions when caregivers encountered someone less qualified.
Overall Marlyn has good experiences with the people that come to her home to care for her husband.
No, they didn’t explain anything like that. Of course, by the time you get to that point you’ve been doing everything. So, there wasn’t much that they had to tell me. The relationships with the caregivers themselves has been fantastic. The caregivers are really wonderful people, and with the odd […]
Sometimes it was easier for an outsider to teach his daughter about personal care than for Jacques to do it himself.
Well, information sources, I had many… I had help with those things, the… rightly from the CLSC, because I had someone who came, and who dropped in. Even sending me things, because I had things made… I noticed one time that she had fallen and she couldn’t bring herself to […]
New and untrained people from home care
The difficulties caregivers experienced were mostly to do with certain system issues in the provision of home care itself. The frequent change of home care staff was often problematic, for example. Val counted 48 different healthcare professionals that came to her home. Several caregivers spoke about the time and energy needed to train all the new people that came to their home. Kai, for example, said, “We never got the same person. We would always get a different nurse. So having to explain the situation twice: ‘This is my dad this is what he’s going through, this is what we do for him, this is how he likes it done.’” At the same time, it was often difficult for the care recipients to adapt to the continuous changes.
Interaction with the home care staff was difficult for Christine’s mother as she kept meeting new people.
She had someone come in twice a week to help her with a bath. And the only reason she got the twice a week is because she’s incontinent. Because otherwise it’s once a week. Now, that’s fine. There was the cleaning person. There was someone, a companion, for about two […]
Having a new home care worker every day was difficult for Ginny and her mother. Eventually, Ginny decided they might be better off without the help.
I think there was lots that could have been done when my mother was living with me, but I didn’t know about the supports or it took so long to get them. I remember making an appointment for someone to come to my house, and to get the caregiver to […]
After witnessing a painful incident, Kai and his mother decided that they could do a better job themselves.
So one of them, one of the nurses tightened it, and then when they came the second time, this new nurse was—I thought that she was in a rush. And she ripped, I’m not saying that she ripped it, but she was very quickly, quick to take the bandage off […]
Elaine’s father met a grief counsellor who was only in her twenties. Elaine explained to her that she may not be the right fit for her father.
And one really bad time was when mom was well into dying […] Now maybe she was 25, but she wasn’t much older than that, and she was the social worker and she was the grief counsellor. So, she was going to talk to my dad about how to handle […]
Lack of resources or time
Several caregivers felt that home care organizations did not have enough resources to meet all the needs in their community. This meant that they either didn’t receive any home care at all or had to manage with insufficient home care support and frequent cancellations at the last moment.
Christiane’s husband wants a male homecare worker. Because of a shortage of male caregivers, Christiane received less time than she would otherwise.
Because I know that it helped speed up the number of hours—I don’t know if it’s me, but I will tell you that yes, it’s me—the number of hours of respite that they give. But did you see, the gentleman who was here earlier, he should be giving me two […]
Joanne’s mother has yet to receive any support; they are still on a waiting list.
But in terms of help in the home, that establishment doesn’t have any budget right now; they’re not giving anything. So at home, there’s no caregiver, there’s no home support, there’s no nothing. So, it’s either me, or you pay. And to give you a concrete example of that is […]
Several other caregivers felt they received sufficient support and were happy with the services provided.
Although Marlyn is very satisfied with the homecare services, last minute cancellations can leave her in a difficult position.
No, the only problem we have with homecare is when somebody can’t come, like either they’re suddenly sick or they’re on holidays, and somebody else has been scheduled in their place. Sometimes, the coordinators that are supposed to be scheduling people don’t get somebody scheduled in their place, so nobody shows up. Or sometimes you’ll get a call last minute saying “We don’t have anybody to come,” and sometimes that’s not a big problem if it means [my husband] has to miss his nap in the afternoon, that’s not the end of the world. But when they phone you at 9 at night to say “we don’t have anybody to come at 10:30 tonight to put you into bed,” well, that is a major problem because it means that [my husband] would have to sit up all night in the basement in his chair, right?
How did you solve those situations?
Well that the one time, they simply couldn’t find anybody, because we really battle them when they phone and say that, and we spell it out to them as to what it means. Normally, they try harder and they can finally find somebody. But one time—well probably more than one time, a couple of times—one time, we had to ask a neighbour, our next-door neighbour, if he could come over and help get [my husband] into bed. Another time, I managed to do it after he got the lift system, which means I don’t have to do the lifting part—of course I can’t really remember how to properly put the sling on him and sometimes it ends up kind of weird, but [my husband is] pretty good at knowing how it’s supposed to go. So between he and I, we sort of fumbled our way through getting the sling on him, and then the lift does the rest getting him onto the bed. I mean, he couldn’t do, he didn’t brush his teeth or do the rest of what he might normally do, but he at least got into bed. But that’s always a worry when I go away—that he’ll get a call like that. And the worst case scenario would be if he had to sit up all night. That would be extremely uncomfortable. So that’s the weak link in the homecare chain. Otherwise, it’s an absolutely incredibly good system.
Although Val is very satisfied with the homecare services, last minute cancellations can leave her in a difficult position.
I ended up contacting the Minister of Health, and also [name] who is the Progressive Conservative Leader Member of Parliament for [name village in MB], and also [name] who is the healthcare critic for parliament. When those e-mails went out that morning—I took all night to write them—and when those […]
Live-in caregivers and other solutions
Live-in caregivers are individuals who are qualified to provide care for children, elderly persons or persons with disabilities in private homes without supervision. Both Sheni and Donovan have experiences with employing live-in caregivers who lived in their homes to support them in the day-to-day tasks.
Sheni found the live-in caregiver very helpful, especially since she could check-in with him at home during the day.
Yeah, the live-in caregiver was really good having him around because he hung out with my husband and they kind of… it was entertainment and plus it was helpful because he would make meals and he would do some laundry… and […] if I was at work and I needed […]
Although Donovan was an experienced supervisor in his professional life, he finds it difficult to supervise the two live-in caregivers.
Way back when I worked, I was supervising most of my work life and I did well. I could supervise. And I have difficulty now supervising the 2 workers that we’ve got. I just find it quite difficult. Part of the reason is because we are with them all the […]
Even when home care works as it should, it remains a challenge to find the right care and the right support. Claire finds home care services absolutely helpful in supporting her in her role. She says, “Having outside help—absolutely could not do it without outside caregivers in the home for sure. That’s probably been the best and the most difficult part all wrapped up in one.”
Review date: 2019-09